Into her next Century
Grandma Teshima turns 100
by Tiffany Edwards
What am I? It's a question I will
always have," Shizuko "Grandma" Teshima says. The proprietor
of the famed landmark Japanese restaurant in Honalo continues to ponder
the meaning of life at 100.
The Teshima family will celebrate her 100th birthday with an open house
at the restaurant on June 24, beginning around 2or 3 p.m.
Teshima says she feels "too old." She'd like to stop time
and preserve herself as she is right now.
Born in a Kona coffee field in 1907, she was the oldest of three girls
and four boys, and has outlived all of them. Her parents immigrated
from Hiroshima; her mother was a "picture bride."
Shizuko married Fumio Teshima 80 years ago; they were together until
he died over a decade ago. She is matriarch of a family that includes
five children, 12 grandchildren, 25 great-grandchildren and seven great-great
grandchildren, some of whom help to operate her business.
She remembers when she first took over the store from her dad in 1929,
and her husband worked for the Napoopoo Company.
"Both of us, day and night, with no electricity, we had to make
ice cream late at night," she recalls. "My husband grinded.
The ice came from Hilo. We had kerosene lamps. Those days it was hard
work, but it was good."
In 1960 she converted the store into a 230-seat restaurant.
Teshima is "interested in life" and loves biographies. She
also enjoys tabloids such as the National Enquirer and Star; she's fascinated
by their take on politics. During our interview, she periodically mentioned
her disbelief that Bush could be having an affair with Secretary of
Defense Condoleeza Rice.
Of all the wars she's seen, she deems the Iraq War the worst.
"If we want oil or whatever, why don't we buy?" she says.
"Why don't they take care of the country, buy enough?"
Like all centenarians, Teshima is a storehouse of nearly-forgotten local
lore. She recalls the "Kona echo"- a howling sound "like
a ghost-Oooohhh whooo! I used to be so scared."
Over time, it was discovered that the sound came from the ocean hitting
a Honaunau cave. There even a newspaper called the Kona Echo.
"In those days we believed in the devil," she says. "When
you pass under a mango tree, the donkey doesn't move. So the rider gets
off. You'd think the devil was in the mango tree. So you would smoke
pakalolo, they call it 'devil.' "Another time, on the road down
there, a narrow road, I saw a lady with a bandana on the road that howls.
So I went to collection one day, but I couldn't come home because I
heard about that devil. Today I would think it was a cat. But I still
picture that devil on the road with that big bandana.
"When you go to Volcano, play with fire, throw something, the Hawaiian
ladies, I heard them say, 'Pele's going to get angry. Don't throw anything.'
Till today, I respect Pele; I think her spirit must be there. The devil,
I try not to believe, but when I go out at night by myself, I feel something
and I'm scared.
"I'd like to believe something. I wonder if there's something.
I wish there is. If they say there's nothing, I lose hope. In religion,
Christian, Catholic, whatever I believe.... There is one Almighty God.
You can have any religion you want, but there is one God. No discrimination
of religion. Everybody teaches you something good, but don't say one
mighty God, don't say my God is the only one."
Teshima is convinced there is a spirit, having years ago been visited
by her father after he died.
"Sometimes I'm in the kitchen working, I think of someone and then
they call me. There's some kind of electricity. Sometimes when you dream,
you dream about something. One time I dreamed about a lizard, the next
day I saw the lizard. There must be some kind of communication.
"One thing I believe, when you do something good or when you do
something bad, in the long run, it comes to you - maybe not to you,
to your loved ones. So, if you cheat somebody, you're all right at that
time, but you're going to lose on something. Things come round and round.
I feel that is true." she says.
Every Christmas she types letters to her children and their children,
emphasizing "make sure you take care of yourself and have your
protection, including insurance. Don't get angry. Please understand
others before you get angry. Don't be greedy. Learn to forgive-even
if you're wrong or they're wrong, forgive tomorrow. You'll be happy."
She worries about her family and their lives, and she worries about
them caring for the business she has built up over the years.
"I think I had a good life.... I can forgive,. I was just born
that way."
Her key to a long life? Teshima believes her family, happy disposition,
enjoyment of work and desire to host and care for people have contributed
to her longevity.
"You really have to bond with it."